United Methodists and Communion
Some Questions and Answers
Why do United Methodists call this sharing of bread and cup by different names such as Lordís Supper, Holy Communion, and Eucharist?
Each of these names is taken from the New Testament and highlights certain facets of this sacramentís many meanings. Calling it the Lordís Supper reminds us that it is a meal instituted by the Lord Jesus Christ and hosted by him at his table whenever it takes place. Calling it Holy Communion reminds us that it is an act of the most holy and intimate sharing, making us one with Jesus Christ and part of his body, the church. Calling it the Eucharist, a term taken from the New Testament Greek word meaning thanksgiving, reminds us that giving thanks to God for all that God has done is an essential part of the meal itself. By using different names, we acknowledge that no single name can contain the rich wealth of meanings in this sacred act.
What do United Methodists mean when they call this act a sacrament?
Our Confession of Faith states: ďWe believe the sacraments, ordained by Christ, are symbols and pledges of the Christianís profession and of Godís love toward us. They are means of grace by which God works invisibly in us, quickening (bringing to life), strengthening and confirming our faith in him. Two Sacraments are ordained by Christ our Lord, namely Baptism and the Lordís Supper.Ē The term is taken from the Latin sacramentum, which was a Roman soldierís pledge of allegiance. A sacrament is Godís pledge of allegiance (love and faithfulness) to us and our answering pledge of allegiance to God.
Do United Methodist believe that the bread and wine physically or chemically change into Christís flesh and blood in this sacrament?
No, we believe that the change is spiritual. They signify the body and blood of Christ for us, helping us to be Christís body in the world today, redeemed by Christís blood. We pray over the bread and cup that they may make us one with Christ, ďone with each other, and one in service to all the world.Ē
I am a Christian but not a United Methodist. Am I invited to receive Communion in a United Methodist church?
Yes indeed. It is the Lordís Supper, not ours, and it is Christ who invites you. As our ritual puts it: ďChrist our Lord invites to his table all who love him, who earnestly repent of their sin and seek to live in peace with one another.Ē We do not refuse any who present themselves desiring to receive. Whether you should receive Communion with us is between you and God.
I do not wish to receive Communion because doing so would be disloyal to my religion or denomination. May I attend a United Methodist Communion service and not receive Communion?
Yes indeed. We do not want anyone to feel unwelcome because, for whatever reason, they do not choose to receive Communion. Simply remain seated when others go forward, or pass the bread and cup along if they are passed to you, and no one will question what you do.
Should I receive Communion if I feel unworthy?
Two thousand years ago Jesus ate with sinners and those whom others scorned. He still does. None of us is worthy, except by Godís grace. Thank God we donít have to earn worthy in Godís eyes by our goodness or our faith. Your sacred worth, and ours, is Godís free gift. No matter what you have done, or what your present condition, if you want Christ in your life you are welcome at his table. Communion provides the opportunity for you to confess your sins, to receive forgiveness and to indicate your intention to lead a new life.
May young children receive Communion?
Certainly. As The United Methodist Book of Worship puts it, ďAll who intend to lead a Christian life, together with their children, are invited to receive the bread and cup.Ē We remember that when some of Jesusí disciples tried to keep children away from him he said: ďLet the little children come to me; do not stop them; for it is to such as these that the kingdom of God belongs.Ē (Mark 10:14)
But do young children know what they are doing when they receive Communion?
Do they understand the full meaning of this holy sacrament? No, and neither do any of us. It is a wonderful mystery, and children can sense wonder and mystery. Children cannot understand the full significance of family meals, but we feed them at our family tables and at Christís family table. Young children experience being loved by being fed. They sense the difference between being included and excluded at a family meal. They have the faith of a child, appropriate to their stage of development, which Jesus recognized and honored. Indeed, he said to adults: ďWhoever does not receive the kingdom of God as a little child will never enter it.Ē (Mark 10:15)
May I receive Communion without standing or kneeling?
Certainly. In some United Methodist congregations most persons receive communion while standing, while in others most receive while kneeling; but you are always welcome to receive while seated. If others are kneeling at the rail, you may remain standing and you will be served. You may also come forward and be seated on the front row, or come forward in your wheelchair, and you will be served. Or you may notify an usher, and someone will come to you and serve you where you are seated.
If someone in my family wishes to receive Communion but cannot come to the church service, can Communion be brought to them?
Certainly. As an extension of the congregationís celebration of the Lordís Supper, Communion is brought to persons, wherever they are, who wish it but could not attend the service. This can be done by the pastor or other clergy, or by designated laypersons.
Is Communion possible at weddings, at healing services or at funerals or memorial services?
Yes. If you wish to arrange this, talk with your pastor.
The author is The Rev. Hoyt L. Hickman, former director of worship resources for The United Methodist Church.